I have small goals I’ve secretly set for myself. Secretly, meaning, until now, I haven’t written them down or told too many people about them. They’re more set in order to keep me going when life gets monotonous; they’re just little things. Like… putting the exact right amount of creamer in my coffee the first time around (no need to taste test) having exact change and being bold enough to stand at the counter until I count it because I know I have it, even if that means the person behind…